«Time has a way of showing us that the simple joys — sunrises, a kind word, a shared meal — were always the richest gifts.»
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Sunt o persoana cat se poate de simpla, cu o rutina de viata care nu are absolut nimic iesit din comun.
Personalitatea mea se incadreaza in tiparul introvert, insa volubila functie de obiectul conversatiei. Nativ, tiparele mele de gandire sunt accentuat pragmatice, rationale, realiste. Stilul conversational este clar si direct, presarat uneori cu un umor negru, in ton cu Vremurile.
Ca filosofie de Viata inclin spre un relativ #minimalism, cu preocupare pt responsabilitate financiara si evitarea risipei — cu exceptia datilor cand
intru in Jumbo.
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Am un job basic dar stabil, iar tiparul office-hours imi permite un echilibru decent intre munca si viata personala. Timpul liber mi-l ocup citind in principal pe zone nisate de Psihologie /Dezvoltare Personala, si scanand #reddit « mi-am gasit «tribul» in cateva comunitati women-centred, iar expunerea constanta la experienta lor si la diversitatea de perspective genereaza evolutie✨ si in tiparele mele de a privi Viata.
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Aplic interogari pe diverse
zone de interes » extrem de impresionata de dinamica si profunzimea interactiunii.
Am stat cu el o saptamana in discutii intensive pe subiectul #dating-after-40 » Claritatea e #lifechanging.☀️✨
Scanez zilnic si zona r/ de #trending, pt a fi la curent cu ce se mai intampla pe aceasta mirobolanta Planeta — de ex am urmarit in direct discursul inaugural al lui Trump si tot ce se rostogoleste din el.
Am in feed si #ecosistemul Gradinii-Maicii-Domnului — ah, da, sa nu uit azi sa trec prin Lidl sa-mi refac stocul de lamai.
La categoria «vicii» incadrez faptul ca urmaresc constant ce filme mai apar pe Prime, si aleg ce are rating peste 6 IMDb — Homeland a ramas seria mea preferata, iar din lipsa de noutati, momentan m-am bagat in The Mentalist. Merg periodic si la cinema, in special la filmele spectaculoase vizual, dar probabil ♥️Avatar [2009] va ramane filmul meu preferat ever, mai ales pt Mesajul sau.
Pt #weekend-uri mi-am format o rutina de city-wandering, iar daca sunt organizate evenimente✨, bifez in special expozitii [flori♥️, fotografie, auto, animalute, traditii],
targuri tematice [sarbatori, carti, ceramica, antichitati], festivaluri, concerte, cinema, muzee, 1 Iunie, Zilele Iasiului, sarbatori nationale, etc.
Foto Profil: August 2020☀️
Blugi si adidasi.✨
No makeup.☀️
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Feminista. Atee. Vaccinata.
Nurturer. True Friend.
5 Love Languages.
Loialitate, Dedicare.
Proactive, Teamwork.
Win-Win, Simbioza, Sinergie.
LAT Relationship.
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Women 40+ often lose interest in marriage or cohabitation for a mix of practical, emotional, and psychological reasons. Here’s a breakdown:
1. Hard-Earned Independence
By this stage, many women have built stable lives — careers, homes, routines.
The idea of merging finances, habits, and personal space with someone else can feel more disruptive than beneficial.
2. Emotional Burnout from Past Relationships
Many have already been through long-term relationships, marriages, or even divorces. They’ve experienced the effort required and may not see the value in doing it all over again.
3. Unequal Division of Labor
Even in modern relationships, studies show that women still handle most of the emotional and household labor. Many don’t want to return to a dynamic where they’re expected to be a caregiver, housekeeper, or emotional support system without equal reciprocity.
4. Freedom & Personal Time
They’ve likely spent years prioritizing others — children, partners, family. Now, they value their autonomy and don’t want to compromise it for someone who might bring more stress than joy.
5. Different Priorities
At 40+, life isn’t about building a family anymore — it’s about enjoying life. Travel, hobbies, friendships, and self-discovery often take precedence over romantic commitments.
6. The Diminished Appeal of Marriage
Marriage no longer offers the financial or social stability it once did. Women today can support themselves, and with high divorce rates, legal entanglements don’t seem worth the risk.
7. Lack of High-Quality Partners
By this age, many of the emotionally mature, responsible, and communicative men are either taken, widowed, or divorced with baggage. The dating pool is often filled with avoidant, emotionally unavailable, or entitled men who expect a woman to serve them rather than partner with them.
8. They Just Don’t Need It
The traditional narrative — that a woman needs a man for security or happiness — is outdated. A lot of women are genuinely happier single, rather than settling for a relationship that drains them.
In short, for many women over 40, the cost of a relationship outweighs the benefits. If it doesn’t enhance their life, they’re not interested.
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The Benefits of a True Friendship go beyond just having someone to talk to.
A deep, meaningful connection with a real friend enriches life in many ways, emotionally, mentally, and even physically. Here are some of the most impactful benefits:
☀️ 1. Emotional Support & Stability
A true friend is there for you, whether you're at your best or struggling. They provide a safe space where you can express your thoughts, emotions, and fears without judgment. This kind of support helps regulate emotions and reduces stress.
☀️ 2. A Sense of Belonging
Feeling truly seen and understood creates a deep sense of connection. This sense of belonging can combat loneliness and give life more meaning.
☀️ 3. Encouragement & Motivation
A real friend wants to see you grow. They’ll cheer for your wins, push you when you’re hesitating, and remind you of your strengths when you doubt yourself.
☀️ 4. Honest Reflection & Personal Growth
A good friend isn’t afraid to tell you the truth. They’ll call you out (kindly) when you’re wrong and help you see things from a different perspective. This honesty fosters self-awareness and personal development.
☀️ 5. Reduced Stress & Improved Mental Health
Studies show that people with strong friendships experience lower levels of anxiety and depression. The emotional support of a trusted friend can provide relief during tough times.
☀️ 6. Sharing Joy & Laughter
Life feels lighter when you have someone to share both the little and big moments with. Laughter and shared experiences bring joy, making even ordinary days feel special.
☀️ 7. Protection Against Isolation in Later Life
As we age, friendships become even more important for emotional and mental well-being. A true friend provides companionship and prevents the deep loneliness that can come with life changes.
☀️ 8. Security & Loyalty
A true friend stands by you, not just when life is easy but when it's tough. Knowing that someone has your back no matter what brings a strong sense of security and trust.
☀️ 9. Intellectual & Emotional Stimulation
Great friendships challenge your thinking, introduce you to new ideas, and keep conversations rich and meaningful. They help expand your mind while also deepening your emotional intelligence.
☀️ 10. Unconditional Acceptance
With a true friend, you don’t have to put on a mask. They accept you as you are, flaws and all, and you do the same for them. This acceptance is rare and deeply fulfilling.
✨ A true friendship isn’t just about having fun or passing the time — it’s about deep connection, trust, and mutual growth. It’s one of the most valuable things in life.
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