«Time has a way of showing us that the simple joys — sunrises, a kind word, a shared meal — were always the richest gifts.»

•

Sunt o persoana cat se poate de simpla, cu o rutina de viata care nu are absolut nimic iesit din comun.

Personalitatea mea se incadreaza in tiparul introvert, insa volubila functie de obiectul conversatiei. Nativ, tiparele mele de gandire sunt accentuat pragmatice, rationale, realiste. Stilul conversational este clar si direct, presarat uneori cu un umor negru, in ton cu Vremurile.

Ca filosofie de Viata inclin spre un relativ #minimalism, cu preocupare pt responsabilitate financiara si evitarea risipei — cu exceptia datilor cand
intru in Jumbo.)))

Am un job basic dar stabil, iar tiparul office-hours imi permite un echilibru decent intre munca si viata personala. Timpul liber mi-l ocup citind in principal pe zone nisate de Psihologie /Dezvoltare Personala, si scanand #reddit « mi-am gasit «tribul» in cateva comunitati women-centred, iar expunerea constanta la experienta lor si la diversitatea de perspective genereaza evolutie✨ si in tiparele mele de a privi Viata.

Recent am descoperit si
ChatGPT Get-Advice.☀️✨
Aplic interogari pe diverse
zone de interes » extrem de impresionata de dinamica si profunzimea interactiunii.
Am stat cu el o saptamana in discutii intensive pe subiectul #dating-after-40 » Claritatea e #lifechanging.☀️✨

Scanez zilnic si zona r/ de #trending, pt a fi la curent cu ce se mai intampla pe aceasta mirobolanta Planeta — de ex am urmarit in direct discursul inaugural al lui Trump si tot ce se rostogoleste din el.

Am in feed si #ecosistemul Gradinii-Maicii-Domnului — ah, da, sa nu uit azi sa trec prin Lidl sa-mi refac stocul de lamai.

La categoria «vicii» incadrez faptul ca urmaresc constant ce filme mai apar pe Prime, si aleg ce are rating peste 6 IMDb — Homeland a ramas seria mea preferata, iar din lipsa de noutati, momentan m-am bagat in The Mentalist. Merg periodic si la cinema, in special la filmele spectaculoase vizual, dar probabil ♥️Avatar [2009] va ramane filmul meu preferat ever, mai ales pt Mesajul sau.

Pt #weekend-uri mi-am format o rutina de city-wandering, iar daca sunt organizate evenimente✨, bifez in special expozitii [flori♥️, fotografie, auto, animalute, traditii],
targuri tematice [sarbatori, carti, ceramica, antichitati], festivaluri, concerte, cinema, muzee, 1 Iunie, Zilele Iasiului, sarbatori nationale, etc.

Foto Profil: August 2020☀️

Blugi si adidasi.✨
No makeup.☀️

Feminista. Atee. Vaccinata.

Win-Win, Simbioza, Sinergie✨

××

03/2025 -- 5+ ani de Matri

Inbox-ul meu a fost constant
99.9% spam » eu personal
am incheiat capitolul #dating.
Nu stau sa fac Politie in
oceanul de #anonimi seriosi™~
care ascunde verigheta,
care e scammer,
care e pradator sexual,
care nu si-a luat Pastilele,
care minte infect cand
bifeaza varsta /interese /..,
care e analfabet functional,
care e bolovan dpdv emotional,
care colectioneaza STD-uri,
care isi face Dezvoltarea
Personala pe P°rnHub,
care e vierme parazit,
etc etc etc.

Ce ati semanat, aia veti culege.
Enjoy✨

PS: Absolut toate mesajele
nesolicitate sunt automat
sterse, fara a fi citite.

____________________________

Women 40+ often lose interest in marriage or cohabitation for a mix of practical, emotional, and psychological reasons. Here’s a breakdown:

1. Hard-Earned Independence

By this stage, many women have built stable lives — careers, homes, routines.
The idea of merging finances, habits, and personal space with someone else can feel more disruptive than beneficial.

2. Emotional Burnout from Past Relationships

Many have already been through long-term relationships, marriages, or even divorces. They’ve experienced the effort required and may not see the value in doing it all over again.

3. Unequal Division of Labor

Even in modern relationships, studies show that women still handle most of the emotional and household labor. Many don’t want to return to a dynamic where they’re expected to be a caregiver, housekeeper, or emotional support system without equal reciprocity.

4. Freedom & Personal Time

They’ve likely spent years prioritizing others — children, partners, family. Now, they value their autonomy and don’t want to compromise it for someone who might bring more stress than joy.

5. Different Priorities

At 40+, life isn’t about building a family anymore — it’s about enjoying life. Travel, hobbies, friendships, and self-discovery often take precedence over romantic commitments.

6. The Diminished Appeal of Marriage

Marriage no longer offers the financial or social stability it once did. Women today can support themselves, and with high divorce rates, legal entanglements don’t seem worth the risk.

7. Lack of High-Quality Partners

By this age, many of the emotionally mature, responsible, and communicative men are either taken, widowed, or divorced with baggage. The dating pool is often filled with avoidant, emotionally unavailable, or entitled men who expect a woman to serve them rather than partner with them.

8. They Just Don’t Need It

The traditional narrative — that a woman needs a man for security or happiness — is outdated. A lot of women are genuinely happier single, rather than settling for a relationship that drains them.

In short, for many women over 40, the cost of a relationship outweighs the benefits. If it doesn’t enhance their life, they’re not interested.

[ChatGPT Get Advice☀️✨]